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There are times when “distancing” — seeking more space between partners — is the best thing you can do for the relationship, …

If you do anything interesting in life, you are bound to be criticized. It is best to handle criticism without becoming defensive …

While some sacrifices need to be made in any relationship, giving up what you truly enjoy will only lead to resentment. It …

GUEST AUTHOR Jon Maksik writes: I sometimes joke that in a few millennia humans will have evolved into stooped beasts able only …

It would be a miracle to find another person to whom you’re attracted and who shares the same expectations and attitude toward …

Why do some people agonize over saying no? Personality Development Often people cannot say no because they dread disappointing others. As you …

Relationship break ups can be extremely painful because of the feelings of rejection, loneliness, fear of the unknown, and even be a …

Assumptions are the termites of relationship. ~Henry Winkler When someone seems cold toward you, don’t assume the worst. It’s a pity to …

Guessing game: Cycle of fusion People often mistake intimacy with a feeling of closeness and “being one” that comes from all-encompassing agreement …

The extraordinary moments of life are outbalanced by the more frequent ordinary moments, such as working at the computer, going to the …

The good thing about “selfish” people is that they take care of themselves — so you don’t have to. They can also …

If your sense of identity or well-being depends on what your partner thinks, it’s natural to try to control your partner. Above all, it becomes critical to minimize anxiety and to continue securely in the emotional attachment. Controlling behavior, however, stifles all spontaneity and freshness in a relationship. Continue reading