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While I am all for the right person, happiness, and love, it’s more likely that you will experience all three if you …

There are times when “distancing” — seeking more space between partners — is the best thing you can do for the relationship, …

It would be a miracle to find another person to whom you’re attracted and who shares the same expectations and attitude toward …

Guessing game: Cycle of fusion People often mistake intimacy with a feeling of closeness and “being one” that comes from all-encompassing agreement …

If your sense of identity or well-being depends on what your partner thinks, it’s natural to try to control your partner. Above all, it becomes critical to minimize anxiety and to continue securely in the emotional attachment. Controlling behavior, however, stifles all spontaneity and freshness in a relationship. Continue reading

Should you push your partner to stop pursuing their passions? People often push their partner to stop pursuing their interests in favor …

Over the past seven years, I have had the pleasure of responding to many questions and comments from readers of my blog …

Some people claim they want more intimacy, but what they seem to really want is total agreement and constant validation, which are …

“My husband gossips about everything and everybody. He even gossips about his daughter to his sister and has the nerve to gossip …

“I have always been very, very close with my mom. However, her constant complaining and negative attitude has always taken a huge …

“I have a “growth” mentality and I guess my husband has a “fixed” mentality. I want to grow and change in every …

“I’ve been cheated, been mistreated When will I be loved I’ve been put down, I’ve been pushed ’round When will I be …