If you want to improve your life it’s important to be able to be assertive and speak your mind. However, if speaking up turns into a habit of complaining, you and those close to you will suffer.

Here are ten reasons not to let complaining become a habit:

1. It’s unattractive. When people complain, they focus on the negative without looking for solutions, and they tend to use a whiny tone of voice, all of which is a turn off.

2. You will push interesting people away. People who complain all the time are boring and tiresome. Continue reading →